Online Dating Safety Tips

Online dating is fun and allows you to meet people that you would likely never meet in real life. However, like most things in life, you know there are some risks involved. People can be whoever they want to be when hiding behind a computer screen so there are some potential safety issues that should be considered when you dive into the world of virtual dating. These risks should not stop you from trying to meet that special someone, but you should be aware of them so that you can always have fun and never get into a bad situation.

Do Not Rush

Those that are legitimately wanting to meet someone for a potential long-term relationship will never rush you. They will want to get to know you by asking a lot of questions, answering all of your questions and wanting to talk online and/or on the phone before heading out to dinner. If someone insists on meeting you right away, it is a good idea to decrease your contact with this person. Since you only know them online, you can easily and safely quit talking to them.

Keep Personal Information, Personal

Things like your email address, phone number and living information should never be shared. Dating websites have ways to communicate so sharing this information on your profile is never necessary. After talking to someone for a while, if you want to step it up a bit and talk on the phone, then sharing this information is fine. However, never share it unless you have been talking to someone for a little while and you personally feel comfortable sharing it. Life is short, but there is no need to rush a potentially good relationship.

No Photo is a Red Flag

Yes, people can steal photos, but things like tineye.com can help you to determine if the photo is legit or swiped from somewhere on the web. Photos are key when it comes to furthering communication. Then, of course, if the person refuses to share a photo it is time to move on.

Know the Red Flags

Things like displays of anger, disappearing for a while and pushing to meet in person are major red flags. You want to meet someone that is consistent and willing to abide by your rules. Women’s intuition is said to be one of the strongest things in this world, so always stick to it. If you feel something is off, it probably is so move on.

The Meeting

It is inevitable that you will eventually meet someone. First and foremost, never allow him to pick you up. You will meet each other so that neither of you know where the other lives. You also want to meet in a public place. A good idea for a first date is heading out for coffee on a Saturday afternoon. This way it is daytime, there are tons of people around and the date can go as quickly or slowly as you want. You have complete control in this situation. You should also tell a friend or two exactly when and where you are going. This way people know what your plans were and can help out if something were to happen. Also, always carry a cell phone and have it within quick reach.